Have you ever had a mentor who made an impact on your life? It seems to me like that is something that everyone is always craving, so naturally, it must be part of the way that God designed us. We were made to be led even as people who lead. Throughout my life, I have had mentors who shaped me, forming me into the man that I am today. They were there when I didn’t know Jesus and are still here now that I am where I am, reminding me of God’s truth and leading me as I lead others. Without these mentors, I know that I wouldn’t see things in the way that I do now. I wouldn’t be open to different perspectives other than my own, and I would definitely still be a complete knucklehead.
It took me a long time and a lot of mistakes to get to the point where I allowed myself to lead. Upon reflection, I can see that the root of this problem was that I got so caught up in wanting to do things my own way. Fleetwood Mac could have written a song about me. (If you don’t get this reference, please call me.) How often do we have the same attitude when it comes to God trying to lead us closer to his heart?
When I look at Romans 9, what I see is a picture of God’s leadership over us. It’s easy to get caught up on what the chapter says about election, but what is election if not leadership? Paul is writing about how God’s promise was originally given to the Jews. They were supposed to be the elect—God’s chosen people—but the promise opened even wider than they could imagine. Suddenly, God was leading the world through Jesus rather than sticking to a select group of people. The perspective shifted because of the leader who was leading, and that shift caused some peoples’ hearts to harden.
Ultimately, when we look at election, I don’t think that we should look at it as divine exclusion. It isn’t about people being left off the team. Instead, it’s about a mentor who sees people where they have been placed and offers to lead them by his great mercy if they are willing to accept it. For example, God hardened Pharaoh’s heart for his own purposes, but Pharaoh never chose to repent and seek God’s mercy. He never tried to shift his perspective because he wanted to be the one who was in total control.
People whose perspectives can’t shift are the ones who refuse to be led; who believe that their way is better and don’t have the ears to hear or the hearts to feel the wisdom of the leader. This can be a confusing concept, but if God didn’t want it to be this way, why would Paul have ended Romans 9 by saying, “Behold, I am laying in Zion a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offense; and whoever believes in him will not be put to shame”?
If we believe in Jesus more than we believe in what we can control ourselves, then we are open to being led by God—to being mentored by our maker. Jesus is the stumbling block that will trip us up if our perspectives are stuck in the wrong direction, and unfortunately, there are some people who would rather trip than receive God’s mercy. This week, as you sit with this scripture, I invite you to pray for God to open your perspective and your life to his leadership. Allow the Lord to bring you to true belief so that your life can be transformed by the Holy Spirit. Maybe you can chat with a trusted mentor about this topic, or you can open your heart to whomever God wants you to lead and pray for in your life. Either way, know that when you look for the Lord, you will find him. God’s divine election and leadership are paving the way forward for you if you are someone who chooses to believe.