I am in awe of those who write Peachtree's daily devotionals. They are so creative and knowledgeable, writing about characteristics I long for. When invited to participate in writing, I was anxious. You see, I am a people pleaser. Saying “No” is not an option in my book (most of the time). There are a few things about me I should tell you. Because I have FOMO (fear of missing out), I usually accept most invitations. I'm eager to help others with problems or issues. I love being a part of planning events and group projects. And when I am required/requested to wear a mask, I do it. Whatever pleases, I’ll try to do it. Writing is not my gift. Listening and caring for others and crunching numbers, now that's my thing.
Sometimes, though, pleasing others gets in the way of my happiness. I don't have time for myself if I'm always busy helping others with their projects/needs, deciding to stay at work longer to get that "one more thing completed," or running errands and doing chores for my family because "I can do it faster and/or better." When my calendar gets too full, my social battery is drained, and I get a little depressed. How can I get it all done? If I'm not happy, how can I genuinely make others happy?
I'm learning that creating boundaries is my best weapon. My New Year's resolution was to make more time for myself. For me, it felt a little selfish, but I knew I needed to do something. So each morning when I wake up, the first thing I do is read a devotional and do my exercises. I've been taught over the years that routine is good for the soul. Although it has taken me decades to try it out, I know now that it works!
Starting the morning by honoring God and giving Him thanks provides the strength and peace I need for the day ahead. I no longer feel rushed as soon as my feet hit the floor. Instead I feel refreshed and ready for whatever lies ahead.